I apologize in advance for this post, but this has been driving me crazy!! I had a doctors appointment and the doctor went ahead and scheduled an induction. She did this because I've been having contractions for a while now with no change, there's little liquid in there, I have a favorable cervix, and I'm now 75% effaced. The induction is scheduled 4 days before my due date. She said I was measuring on schedule, the baby's heart beat sounded great, and he was measuring good. If my doctor suggested it, then I trust her. I'm ok with this process. Apparently some people are not ok with this. This is what I have to say to you, I didn't tell you how to have your baby please don't tell me how to have mine. The last thing I need is somebody telling me what I should be doing and what the "best" thing to do is. What I need now more than ever is love, support, and encouragement. I don't mean to come across as knowing what I am talking about, because yes I know I have never been pregnant before. But please let me do what I want to do without being judged. If you disagree with my decision, thats fine with me but that dorsnt make my decision wrong. I am exhausted as it is, I don't have the energy to keep defending my decision without hurting somebody's feelings. If this a glimpse into the future on what is to come advice wise, I'm looking forward to it....(insert sarcasm here).
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